About

I’m still figuring things out.

I enjoy being alive. I care about people. I take my health seriously. Faith matters to me. I like my work, but it isn’t the whole of who I am.

Portrait of Stan and his wife, sitting close together and smiling.

Today

I like a good ordinary day. Work that is useful. Time with my wife. Two dogs who think they run the house — Bramlet and Xena. A walk. A meal. A little humor when the day needs it.

I would rather live the life I have than wait around for a more official version of myself to arrive. That does not mean I have it figured out. It means I would rather practice living than keep postponing it.

Stan and his wife on a wooded trail, smiling at the camera.

What shaped me

Years ago, cancer walked into a year I had not planned. It changed how I understood time. Days got more specific. Gratitude stopped being a nice idea. Faith was something to lean on when the future felt too loud and the past felt too heavy.

I don’t treat that chapter as my identity. I am not “Stan Hartke, cancer survivor” first. I went through something that rearranged my priorities, then I had to keep living after the rearrangement.

In a grocery store checkout line during that season, a small sign said: Cherish yesterday. Dream of tomorrow. Live today. I didn’t walk past it. A lot of the years since have been me trying to understand why those words landed, and how to keep returning to them.

What I made from it

Project Continuum is the public form of that work. Remembering who I have been. Living the day that is actually here. Becoming, in small ways, the person I hope to practice being. The book carries the longer conversation. The practice on this site is meant to stay small and private.

I also changed my body later, on purpose, over time. That story has its own page because the photographs are easy to misread. I am not handing anyone a program.

Faith

God matters to me. Faith shapes how I understand gratitude, mortality, purpose, and peace. This site is not a pulpit. If you share my faith, you will recognize it. If you don’t, you are still welcome here.

This is simply how I make sense of a life that has included both ordinary joy and serious interruption.

Work

I have spent about twenty-five years in real estate. My current role is Director of MLS Strategic Initiatives. Most of the work sits where real estate, MLS systems, technology, data, organizations, and people meet — usually in the middle of some kind of change that has to actually get implemented.

It is real work and I take it seriously. It is not the front door of this site. If you want the longer professional picture, it is on LinkedIn.

Stan taking a close-up photo next to a large bronze gorilla statue.
Bramlet lying on a carpet.
Bramlet
Xena lying on a blanket.
Xena
Black and white portrait of Stan Hartke.